THE INFLUENCE OF MANU SMRITI ON WHY BY DR.
STEPHEN GILL
Anuradha Sharma
The novel Why suggests that man can stoop to
any level to subjugate women. He can blame them for every failure on his part.
Women are viewed as mere bodies. The
novel also suggests that men and women both can stoop to any level for sex.
There may be justifications for Ruben Motard, protagonist’s behavior towards
women. But more or less, he eyes every
woman as a shop of sex and feels tension in the lower part of his body which is
the only way to exhibit manliness for him.
The novel insinuates that women
will not feel safe if they come out of their house. Their peace, security and
married life will be at stake because men like Ruben Motard, who notice their beauty only in lips, breasts and thighs
move freely in the society. As soon as Ruben sees a woman, a bed began to dance
in front of his eyes. The novel has more than 9 women characters. There is not
even a single woman in the novel with whom he does not want to sleep. It is
projected that there is no other purpose in the life of women, except sleeping
with men. Ruben used Joan, Norma, Alice,
Kathy, Dorothy, Lete and tried to use Denise, and Lucia.
This way of thinking reminds Manu whose views about
women are often condemned because they are unfair. Ruben Motard, the protagonist of Why, is
also unfair to women. Its creator, Dr. Stephen Gill, was born in India though
he has been living
abroad for decades.
He seems to be under the influence of the codes of Manu when he wrote
his first novel Why. Ruben
believes women to be Matter ( body, flesh) and his this idea is very
close to Manu’s ideas which are translated by Dr. Das Bhagvan in the following
way: Man and woman by the very nature of their respective beings, like
primal Purusha and Prakrti, Spirit and Matter, cause excitement and disturbance
to one another. (Das, Bhagvan, pp 489).
As she is only matter she does not have any divine
spark. Man has it because he is spirit.
This view is expressed in Panchtantra by Visnu Sarma. Though Manu and Ruben Motard belong to
different epochs but carry certain similarities which need analytical probes to
explain the views of Manu and behaviour of Ruben Motard.
Why was
published by Vesta Publications Ltd. in Canada in 1976. The tone of the story
set by the mother of Ruben Motard who elopes with a friend of his father,
abandoning the child. When Ruben grows up, he fails to build up lasting and
meaningful relations with any women. Most of the time, he falls in love with
married women. The question is why? To some readers it may be based on his
feelings of revenge and to some Ruben is belittling women on the basis of the
laws of Manu.
About Manu and his book Manu Smriti it is said
that Manava Dharmasastra (Manu Smriti) is one of the books ascribed to Manu who is also known as Sayambhu.
Kulluka. Buhler G says:
The author says that Brahman first composed the law-
book and that Manu condensed its contents in his own language and taught it in
that form to his pupils. Date of these
ancient books to be very controversial. Oriental Scholars are of the view that manu-
smriti belongs to a later stage of literary development than the Dharma-sutras. (Buhler, G.
XV &XXXI).
It is also said,
From the earliest times the mythical Manu, the father
of mankind, was considered as the founder of the social and moral order, and
that he was considered to have first taught or revealed religious rites and
legal maxims. (Buhler, G. XXXIV)
It is puzzling that a post colonial writer, known for
his peace prayers across the world, exhibits patriarchal traits towards women
through his seminal character Ruben Motard. The tone of the novel suggests that women
are weak and they can break the moral law easily if left unguarded. The same
attitude is propagated by Manu. The
novel supports that The children, the housewives with their many cares and
little time the unsophisticated, uneducated people in general, have not the
trained intellect or the time to master the technicalities and details of the
difficult sciences. (Das, Bhagvan.
443)
The protagonist of Why follows the path of
Manu‘s Laws which depict women as the creature of low potential and dull
intellect. Like Prufrock in T.S. Eliot’s poem, Ruben looks at feminine body
with one purpose and that purpose is to satisfy the sexual lust. It is not correct to say that Ruben carries
all the teachings of Manu in regard to women. It is however sure that he
follows some of them strongly, viewing women as subordinate then
companions. He never in the whole course
of the story praises a woman for having brains.
Both Ruben Motard and Manu view women’s body with biological point. Das Bhagvan quotes Keith: From the crown
of her head to the sole of her foot woman’s body differs from man’s. She
buttons her dress differently; she walks, speaks and breathes differently.
(Keith, The Human Body. Pp 144)
There seems to be the great impact of the Manu’s Laws
on the psyche of Ruben when he tries to exploit the intuitive nature of
women. Being the man of mind, Ruben
applies his theories to convince females to bring them to his bed. Elopement of Ruben’s mother with one of his
father’s friend gives him feeling that woman is the being of the heart and so
she can not judge the situation rationally. This is in line with the preaching
of Manu:
To know, even though it be only instinctively, more in
the way of feeling than of knowledge- to know the whence, the whither, the why,
of individual life, the deathlessness of the soul, and the unerring action of
the Law of Karma, to be full of faith in heaven, of love for the family, of
unrepining resignation for the past, of
hope for the future, of patience under suffering, of contentment in the
present; to be able to help and soothe and comfort one’s fellow beings in their
griefs and misfortunes; to be able to understand the heart of human problems
intuitively- this is real soul education and more valuable than mere mind-
information. And this is the birth right of woman more than that of man. She
sees with the heart, he with the head.
(Das, Bhagvan. 461-462)
There is an apprehension in Ruben’s mind like that of
Prufrock of T.S. Eliot. Both the characters play down women torturing them with
the language and with the mediocre intentions like Manu. Prufrock sings:
And the afternoon, the evening, sleeps so peacefully!
Smoothed by long fingers,
Asleep… tired…or it malingers,
Stretched on the floor, here beside you and me.
Should I, after tea and cakes and ices,
Have the strength to force the moment to its crisis? (Manju, 6)
In the above lines the persona disparages women by
expressing them in the terms not fit for their stature. Ruben also wants to
have the moments of crisis by playing tricks on Denise, the wife of his friend
Jerry. To seduce Denise he even damages his bath room door when he comes to
know that she is coming to have a bath in his bathroom. Ruben Motard in his
treatment to women could not do away with the teachings of Manu. He does not
actually believe in the Western individualism but believes in ‘the ancient
Indian view is that the family, of man- woman- child, is the unit and that
humanism is the ideal limit.’ (Das,
Bhagvan. 461-462)
Ruben enjoys the security and care of the family but
as soon as his mother leaves, his concept of a secure life shatters. He does
not see the life of his mother from her point of view. He turns revengeful that
shows his belief that a woman should not demand. She is to serve is the theory
of Manu and her mother’s behaviour is in opposition to this theory. She goes in
search of happiness but that is not the domain of a woman. She has to draw her
happiness by pleasing others. With his
wounded psyche he turns against all the married women and tries to shatter
their concept of security and home by entering in their lives. After his
mother‘s elopement he starts practicing Western individualism on the girls who
come in close contact with him to set
man against woman and woman against man as in the case of Norma, Alice
and Denise. He prepares Alice against Norma to say, ’We love those whom we
do not understand and we do not love those whom we know. (Why, 20)
It is painful to see how Ruben torments souls of
others and also his inner self. More
shocking is the fact that even after so much ado about love there is no glimpse
of the true love from protagonist. Women
enter his life and he wants to leave them after using them to his
satisfaction. He does not like if a
woman says ‘no’. He wants them to behave like ‘yes women’ of old patriarchy. He
reflects the same as:
Her ‘yes’ is yes,
her ‘no’ is yes
her ‘silence’ is also
taken for yes.
Her speech is analyzed thus
her ‘no’ is taken from her tongue
without any social fuss. (Sharma,
Anuradha. Unpublished poem).
At one place when Ruben places his hand on the thigh
of Denise, his patriarchal thinking becomes evident. He just keeps his hand on her left thigh
and then on her right
thigh, feeling good and she does not seem to mind. (Why, 83).
Keeping quiet is not the sign of surrender. He wants them to say ‘yes’
to his every demand and when he finds that the woman will not give in easily, she recedes in back ground
and eyes for another prey. He writes to
Denise:
Dear Denise, our story will turn into a dream to be
remembered when we are old. Time is a great healer. Somebody may emerge from
somewhere to apply balm to my wounds.
(Why, 127)
No where Ruben tries to come into meaningful
relations with any female character. All the female characters are portrayed as
puppets in his hands and discards the one that does not suit his purpose. He always
carries a design about women. When he enters the house of his old girl friend
he could not resist. He is attracted not only to Norma but also
towards her sister- in –law Alice. He plans to be close to Alice and says:
I have been seeing her (Norma) for the last six
years. I know that I can assure her of my love and once it is done the way will
become smooth to convince her that my marriage with you (Alice) is in her own
interest. (Why, 57).
Many times he reproaches himself for entering into illicit affairs but
he gives some logic to clear his mind and nothing bothers his heart. He tells
Norma:
Isn’t it deception that you call another man to your home in his absence.
……….
It is a sin …. A crime – something that our society has never approved of nor
ever will approve“. (Why, 16).
He clears his conscience by saying: Norma you know that I am helpless in
this matter. It is my heart that compels me to see you over and over again. (Why,
16)
He not only cheats women but also lies to have their sympathy or make
them sleep with him. At one place he tells Alice that he loves her and also
says the same thing to Norma. At one place he spends time with Alice as it is
clear from the following lines:
Ruben withdrew a few feet, and leaning against the
wall surveyed her body. “A celestial being”, he exclaimed. Saying this he
turned to her to kiss from different angles, and for a complete consummation.
When they regained their awareness, they stood up calmly and began to dress
silently. (Why, 22).
It is a mystery that how he can utter the same words with
the same emotional intensity to another
woman and make her believe in his so- called love. He says to Norma: I love
you even now as I did in the past. That is why I haven’t been able to form a
meaningful relationship with another girl. (Why, 36).
The above romantic sentence is a total lie. When he
utters the sentence “I love you” it seems he is mocking the soft emotion that
reigns the woman heart. There are numerous paradigms where his anti feminist
views are demonstrated as a follower of Manu. Once when Ruben and his friend go
to buy a prostitute his friend touches their
breast to judge their firmness as they are paying for an object. An
employee undeniably has the right to choose.
She has the right to see and judge the master she is going to serve. But
no case is ever heard where she has rejected a man because of the derisory
erection of his penis. See the following lines:
After formal greetings, his friend touched their
breasts one by one as a jeweler would a diamond, or a farmer might examine a
cow before buying it. He showed his dissatisfaction with the breasts and the car
moved on once again. After a few minutes drive, his friend asked him again to
stop. Again two girls proceeded towards them and he pressed their breasts in
the same manner. (Why, 119) .
In Indian culture women are compared to pet animal like cow. In the above lines
the novelist also treats them in the
same manner. Folk culture of the country believes that women are cow which can
be given as a gift. Ruben is in the habit of praising beauty to the extent of
obsequiousness. The words like he surveyed her body appear giving a sense like
that of a trader who surveys
a plot before buying it or a buyer who
examines a bed sheet, thinking whether it would be comfortable under him. Alice tries to make him understand that this
attraction is nothing but lust: Combing her hair she said, “No one loves
anybody in this world. We actually love our lusts. I think love is nothing more
than a self deception. (Why, 22).
Ruben is never seen caring for any true emotion. He lies to Alice and
says with confidence the words in which he himself does not believe: Alice,
all I can say is I have never been an abstainer. But physical contact without
unity in souls is not so pleasing. (Why, 22).
Above lines are filled with good words whereas in
reality the protagonist is dying for any woman in sight. He is not searching
for spiritual unity. He is looking for any opportunity to fool any woman who
comes close to him. Every physical contact can not lead to spiritual unity and
if it does, then it brings an end to all
the sufferings. Spiritual unity brings in satisfaction, peace and harmony. If it fails in doing so it is then just the
covetousness.
The protagonist of Why in some respect
resembles the persona of Love Song by J.
Alfred Prufrock, a modern poem by T. S. Eliot. Like Ruben, Prufrock asks his
beloved to go out in the evening:
Let us go then, you and I,
When the evening is spread out against the sky
Like a patient etherized upon a table;
(Manju Jain, 3)
Here evening is not to provide any comfort to the
persona; it is rather as bothering as any evening is to Ruben when he is not
able to satisfy his lust. There may be
different reasons behind it and the novel gives the sense of murkiness that
descends over Ruben with the looming darkness. He measured his life like
Prufrock with coffee spoons (Manju, 5) and have known the evenings,
mornings and afternoons (Manju, 5). Both the speakers remain dissatisfied
for the reasons of their own even after meeting their lady love. Both were
involved with their female partner only on one level and that is physical so
they have to be careful when they move out. Manu says that woman can disturb
the peace of any mind and heart.
Eliot writes:
Let us go, through certain half deserted streets,
The muttering retreats
Of restless nights in one--- night cheap hotels (Manju, 3)
Initially Ruben had the idea of Manu that family is
the unit of the society and believes: The man is not the man alone, but the
man, the woman, the child. The sages have declared that wife is the same as
husband. The house is not the home; the housewife is the home. (Das,
Bhagvan. 472).
Both the characters go forth with some ominous target which can be about
the woman also. There is an under current of some unknown design in the plots
which are not always clear to the readers:
Streets that follow like a tedious argument/ Of insidious intent. (Manju,
3).
In Why
this intent is very embryonic when he thinks about Norma: Then he thought of
her husband and with that his heart began to beat fast. He dropped himself
slowly to the green ground to let the gentle sun rays touch his body and soothe
his troubled mind. (Why, 14).
Hesitation of Ruben in taking a decision is like that
of Prufrock. The following lines explain
the psyche of both:
Time for you and time for me,
And time yet for a hundred indecisions,
And for a hundred visions and revisions,
Before the taking of toast and tea.
(Manju, 4).
Above lines give an appropriate understanding about
the characters that they want to use the time and still there is vacillation in
there relation with their partners. This hesitancy is because of their
incapability to have faith in their lives as well as in love. They are
digressed when close to their lady love. Here again persona belittles woman as
Manu does. Eliot talks about them in deprecating terms. He does not address
them by names but talks of them by mentioning their limbs. T. S. Eliot
says:
And I have known the arms already, known them all-
Arms that are braceleted and white and bare
(But in the lamplight, downed with light brown hair!)
Is it perfume for a dress
That makes me so digress?
Arms that lie along a table, or wrap about a shawl. (Manju, 5)
In the same way,
Ruben’s every association with every woman gives him a lasting pain
because he is not sincere and honest in his love: His desire to see her
(Norma) never decreased; it turned into a thirst which doubled with every visit
to her, beginning with untold pleasure and ending with severe agonies and
pains. (Why, 30).
Bewilderment of both the protagonists is manifested
in these lines: And should I then
presume?/ And how should I begin? (Manju, 5).
This puzzle is seen in the behavior of Ruben too. He
also has trepidations about women and thinks before stepping to them:
Then
Ruben espied a girl sitting alone. He suggested to George that he ask her for a
dance, but George was already discouraged with rejections. Ruben was reluctant
to make another attempt. (Why, 148)
It is the mother who is behind the curtain of the
mind to tell their sons how to feel and relate themselves with other women.
Ruben Motard of Why, is denied this opportunity to cultivate his
meaningful relations. It is his mother who creates this insecurity in his mind.
He has the concept of mother which is explained by Manu: The mother is the
incarnation of self sacrifice for the young generation. (Das, Bhagvan. I pp
484).
When this concept of Ruben is shattered by sudden
elopement of his mother, he loses all the respect for women. He felt deceived by the daring
ideals of his mother who for him should be the embodiment of love and
sacrifice. She could have suffered all the tyrannies of her husband in the name
of protecting her child then she could have been presented as an ideal mother.
The home loses every meaning for him after his mother leaves. He decides to
behave badly with any woman who comes to him. He has in his mind,
The Art of Making the Happy Home,
Is the Finest of all Fine Arts,
And in Life’s
Drama, the mother’s Part,
Is the greatest of all Parts. (Das, Bhagvan.
478)
Ruben nurtures antagonistic views towards his mother.
He wants to punish his mother for leaving him alone, but his devices for
revenge are different according to the era to which he belongs. Whatever path he selects, he tries to let his
mother suffer the extreme of the mental agony.
Ruben develops the “psychic inheritance”, the term
used by Carl Jung in his theory in the later years of his life. He has some
knowledge in his subconscious mind about the mother but that knowledge cannot
be turned into conscious as the both the images are the poles apart because of
the uncustomary steps taken by his mother. He was never directly conscious of
the knowledge that he was bearing in his sub unconscious about mother figure
which compels him to behave in unusual way.
Ruben thinks it is the duty of a mother to provide
the household with peace. On the other hand, his mother goes in search for
pleasure for herself that shatters his
peace. He feels cheated by his mother and also by the ideals
he adores. He behaves in a masked manner
as Carl Jung puts it to leave the "good
impression" that we all wish to present as we fill the roles which the
society requires of us. But it can also
be the "false impression" that we use to manipulate people's opinions
and behaviors. And, at its worst, it can be mistaken, even by ourselves, for
our true nature. ( Boeree, C. George. 2006.).
Ruben believes that his mother has failed in
following the motherly ideals. She could
not play her role properly. Consequently, he decides to teach women to play
their role with selfless service and devotion.
Ruben Motard in his agony and sorrow appears as a subject of
psychoanalysis. The following lines suit the character of Ruben who brought
chaos not only in his life but in the lives of women characters, whom he meets:
It is bad enough that men are selfish and vicious;
but that women should also become selfish would abolish goodness from the world
and bring about chaos. (Das,
Bhagvan. Pp 485)
Ruben thinks that it is his mother who brought the
chaos in his family by leaving him and his father alone. She shatters Manu’s
Laws this way. To take revenge, Ruben tries to shatter the peace in the lives
of married women. Ruben thinks of women
to be an object of pleasure. Here man’s vicious activities are forgiven and
woman is taught the ideals not to break any law.
Ruben plays dices on life by staking his mother. He
is ready to lose the game. Winning as
Sakuni, is a symbolic inner greed to satisfy desires. In any case, the aim of
the game is not praiseworthy. Readers see whatever is presented to them but it
appears like a study of Manu Smriti. He plays the game with the teachings of
Manu and it appears that
The game is played at the higher level while readers
take it as simple happening: Playing the game at higher level then you are aware
of, it often feels like either some accident happened. (http:/www.cosmosandlogos.com).
Readers may think that women in Why like
Yudhisthira in Mahabharta are the victims of the random chance, though
Ruben like Sakuni plays the game on a different level to defeat them. The
following lines spoken for someone else presents Ruben’s intensions: He
knows how the dice will roll…. No chance, no uncertainty about how things will
fall out…. (http:/www.cosmosandlogos.com)
There is an element of hypocrisy in Ruben. He
punishes his mother for not individuating him properly. He is sure of his
defeat at the end but does not accept it. He wants his mother to suffer. In the
same way, in his subconscious mind Ruben wants to erase every memory of his
mother by exploiting women and associating their degradation with the action of
his mother. However, he does not succeed in doing so and ends up seeing an
old man. Perhaps this old man with his slight hunchback was thinking about his
son, whose wife had eloped with his friend. (Why, 154)
At the end, Ruben reveals that most of the women
he loved resembled his mother in some way. (Why, 154). Ruben tries
to posses his mother, who has deserted him and also his father to satisfy his
Oedipus Complex. He does this by exploiting
women sexually who resemble his mother. He does not want to marry any of
them but wants to have a child from any of them. His last move depicts his
anger towards his mother. For years he had not thought about her. Now this
revelation makes him think. With a jerk he leaves the bench, looking at the
full moon, emerging from a cloud. His fist began to close in determination, as
he steps towards his room. (Why, 154).
Closed fist shows anger. It seems that he will go and
tear the half done portrait of his mother but still there is a doubt whether he
will stick to his determination.
Before crossing the street, he pauses and looks back at the canal’s
water. He feels as if its softening murmurs were asking him if he could
persevere in his determination (Why, 154). The resemblance of the
portrait with his mother shows that it is not easy to wipe out the impact of
the mother from his life.
Bina Srinivasan rightly says and confirms the Laws of
Manu,
Women are not seen as autonomous beings. They are
perceived to be the property of the community, of men and therefore have to
subscribe to the appropriate rules. This notion of women as property, upon whom
depends the honour of the community and of man has a history… (Bina, 184)
Manu even says to let a woman in the protection of father, husband and son
and thus leaves for her no better space then being the property of the family.
This is the idea of Ruben too and he on being dissatisfied with this mother
figure becomes psychic. Manu has said at many places that matter is woman and
we all know an object has little to rebel. The uncustomary steps of the mother
have made her son, Ruben, somewhat neurotic. Being a member of the dominant
(male) group he decides to punish his mother in any way he can.
The fact is that a mother helps her son reach
adulthood and enables him to compete with the authority of his father. But
Ruben loses this opportunity as Ruben is deserted by his mother before reaching his adulthood.
The protagonist misses the protection and love of mother and feels a void in
self empowerment. He thus cannot forgive his mother. As a result, he behaves in
somewhat mysterious way with the women in the novel Why. The novel
certainly presents a deep study of the bruised male psyche but being a believer
in the woman’s sacrificial role he nowhere bother’s about the boring life of
his mother, and indifferent behaviour of his father towards his mother.
Ruben is deceived because his mother has not given
him a chance of keeping her in his guard. He is the next after his father under
whose protection mother should feel safe but his dream is broken when his
mother elopes. With his life, he proves that he is an actual believer in the
following lines of Manu: The father protects woman in her childhood, as
something precious and delicate, easily injured; husband protects her in her
youth; the son in old age; she should not be left to take care of herself.
(Das, Bhagvan. 499).
Ruben feels cheated because he has not received the
opportunity to protect his mother to satisfy his Oedipus Complex. This betrayal
leads him to break into the security of other married women’s life. He feels
that sacrifice and service are the issues of feminine personality and he feels
that her mother could not play her role of sacrificial being. Therefore he
wants to punish every woman who comes close to him. He has lost all the
sympathy and concern for woman. Manu
Smirti says that a devoted and pure wife can drag her husband back from the
purgatory and take her to the gates of heaven. A woman should not leave her
husband no matter how bad he is. On the
other hand, he can leave his wife after taking all the ornaments he has given
her on many accounts.
Believing this Ruben also has dual standards for man
and woman. She in any condition should be pure and follow the ethics of
life. Ruben acts in the light of the words of Vishnu Puran and Vishnu Bhagvata
who say:
He is
Vishnu, She is Shri, She is language, he is thought, He is meaning, she is
word. She is knowledge, he is mind. He is theory, practice she. She is
prudence, he is law, he is reason, she is sense, she is duty, he is right, he
is author, she is work, she is heat, he is light, he is maker, she is world,
she is fuel, he is fire, she is vacuum, plenum he, he is column, she is roof. (Das, Bhagvan , pp 1116)
These lines may be in the inner cave of Ruben’s mind.
His beliefs in woman’s purity and service are shattered, ultimately making him
neurotic. The impact of old Indian mythological scriptures leaves him
bewildered. He emerges as the subject of intense psychological study because of
the clash between old teachings and their importance in the contemporary times.
Teachings professed by Manu have lost their significance in the modern times
but we need to take help of modern psychology to study the impact of this clash
on the inner self of Ruben Motard.
In Why a strange type of connection emerges
between male and female characters.
Women cleverly beat Ruben’s pragmatics with their reason. He carries Oedipal
hostilities in his heart. His mother’s figure is presented as shadow but its
all pervading influence is evident in the protagonist whose actions expose the
dominance of negativity that he bears for his mother. She is present in every
action of the hero. There is no love in
the relation of mother and son. This fact impacts Ruben which is evident in his
failures to establish any lasting relation and understanding with any of the
female characters. Ruben has not been
able to redeem his mother by relating her tale of woe at his father’s place.
Ruben does not recognize her existence because she does not fit in the
definition of mother--a sacrificial model. He does not like her because she
tried to seek happiness outside the family.
He wants to see the degradation of her mother in every woman he meets
and leaves her afterwards giving his conscious good reasons for his behavior.
Mother does have a prominent role in the novel as Dr.
Gill himself has said in one of his interviews. The mother of Ruben, the protagonist, had a central role in the novel but
he does not elaborate it.
The behaviour of the hero is a masculine revolution
against feminine desire. This strange behavior is the outcome of the complexities
which can be examined under Freudian Psychology, a method to investigate the
way one thinks and behaves. When applied to Ruben, it began to appear that on
the surface he does not talk of his mother.
This does not mean that he does not think of her. His behavior is the result of his repressive
thoughts. He builds a fortress around himself confining his thoughts about his
mother in a psychological cave. He does not allow anybody to enter and console
him or to provide him with any solution. His father never cares that he is
nurturing enmity for his mother. To let his feelings of resentment pass, Ruben
goes to women to have sex without being involved in any kind of responsibility
which is associated with marriage. To
restore his damaged ego he abuses women on a different level-- on the surface
which appears to be a mutual understanding between both but it is the outcome
of a design. In the end when he draws a picture he finds that he has drawn a
picture of his mother and it stamps clearly that he wants to have her. In the
end, it becomes clear that he treats all pervading shadow of his mother as
solid beings of flesh and bones. Ruben’s experience of separation from his
mother gives birth to anxiety in his unconscious mind that coerces his yearnings.
Ruben feels a peculiar kind of joy while in love with
married women, including Norma who
marries Edgar, leaving him. He condemns himself for being in love with her but
it is just to silence his ethical inner voice. He himself wants to meet Norma
whenever possible:
It was four p.m. Deciding to wait until dark, he
tries to lose himself in the gaiety of the men, women, boys and girls who were
playing and laughing, caught in the grip of the
spring madness. Each girl that passed his way
reminded him of Norma. (Why,
14).
Ruben does what he never approves for his mother. He
bears her influence and he is aware of the crime (sin) she has committed by
leaving her family for another man. He is confused and thinks of his mother. Then
Ruben’s thoughts dwelt on his mother: he wondered if she could give her love to
anyone, she had deserted her husband and her only child just to overcome
boredom. (Why, 29).
Like the males in the age of Manu, a woman’s desires
and dreams do not have any priority. Ruben like those males does not feel about
the miserable life of his mother at his father’s place. Contrary to this, he
becomes aware of the sin she commits by leaving the house in which she enters
after taking the marital oaths. This neo
initiative of his mother searching happiness outside her married life does not
suit Ruben’s patriarchal thinking. In
the course of time he tries to grow relations with married women or let them
marry another man after sleeping with them to revenge upon his mother. One
incident that supports this view is when he blames Norma for calling him in her
husband’s absence.
Ruben believes that a virtuous wife should never go
against her husband. When he feels a bit disturbed by the behaviour of Norma
who was seeing him in the absence of her husband not only he questions her but
also seems to believe in the Manu’s Law about women : A virtuous wife should
never do anything displeasing to the husband who took her in marriage.
(Subramanaim, Meenakshi, The Laws of Manu) Ruben feels that his mother has failed
in carrying this ethics of life and thus she has brought shame to the whole
family: He fails in establishing any meaningful relation with any woman because
he does not want to carry responsibility. Every woman dies away in his memory
as soon as she is out of his sight.
Also, Ruben never leaves any opportunity to belittle
women. Mr. Cobb revenges upon his wife just because she turns down his marriage
request earlier. Only Mrs. Cobb is shown as a woman with strong desire who
leaves her husband when she gets a man of her choice. Patriarchal thinking of
the author could not digest it and he shows her as the sole problem for the
Cobb family by saying:
Once she was out of Mr. Cobb’s life, he became a
better husband and father. After twenty years the children discovered that
their mother was having an affair with bachelor, much younger than herself. (Why, 25).
This is something like T.S. Eliot who demeans women by saying: In the room the women come and go /
Talking of Michelangelo. (Manju, 4).
Like Manu and Ruben Motard, Eliot does not think that women have the
capacity to discuss intellectual matters about the acclaimed painter. So he mocks them by saying that they discuss
every serious matter lightly and bring triviality to the subject like
Michelangelo by reducing it to the topic of dining table talk. According to
Manu she is vacuum and so she does not have capacity to talk about any subject.
She always needs a man to sustain her personality because she needs support.
Manu has said that she is roof and it is evident that roof can not be suspended
in the air. The roof does need a column and the male is the column. Here the creator of novel Why holds
women responsible for Ruben’s life. No where the novelist makes Ruben reproach
his father for the boredom his mother suffered in his house. Thought flew to
his father, who had urged him to marry and settle down. For his father to be
occupied was happiness. When his wife left him, he found pleasure in work. (Why,
29)
What Ruben
thinks right for himself to eliminate his boredom or achieve peace does not
endorse for his mother: Life was
already converging on dullness, but he could rid himself of this boredom with
occasional dates. (Why, 29).
But when his thoughts dwell on his mother, he thinks as if he is not the
same Ruben but someone else. He shows no sympathy for
his mothers boredom.
Ruben propagates all sorts of love--- motherly,
sisterly, love of children, parental and also love of Antony and Cleopatra. It
seems he talks of every kind of love shallowly-- he does not believe in purity
and strength of true love. This is the reason why every woman who enters his
life just remains like clothes to be changed in days, months and in years. He
utterly fails in developing any lasting relation with any woman, nor does he
find any sister or even sacred love of mother even in the love of elderly woman
Dorothy.
The protagonist borrows the voice of his creator to voice his views about
women. The persona is self conscious and hyper critical about women. There is a
sense of insecurity witnessed in Ruben because he is left out of the circle of
security by his mother.
In Why female characters are not fully
developed and have no individual voice and choice. Ruben has doubts in his mind
about the life of his mother as he believes that woman should be devoted to her
husband and believes that A husband is a Hindu woman’s main support. (Wadley,
92). The story of Why is anti
feminist as the writer does not depict any sympathetic view towards women.
Ruben’s mother’s elopement leaves indelible marks on Ruben’s psyche. It
is said that She must not seek to separate herself from her father, husband,
or sons; by leaving them she would make both (her own and her husband’s)
families contemptible. (Buhler, G.
195). It is obvious that Ruben
Motard carries the East Indian heritage
of Manu and is aware of this patriarchal
tradition which is stamped by Manu on the psyche of the whole nation of India.
Manu Smrti and its impact are obvious in Ruben’s personal life. He believes in teachings of Manu
unconsciously which goes: Men should
never give any license to their wives in day and night; by keeping them engaged
in commendable pursuits, they should keep them under their own control.
(Nath Manmatha, 315). He feels that his
father fails in controlling his wife and she is corrupted by outside influence.
He believes:
Women should
be especially protected from the slightest of corrupting influences (such as
bad company etc.) since an unprotected woman aggrieves the two families. (i.e.
those of her father and husband) (Nath Manmatha, 315)
What makes Ruben think that his mother was not right
in leaving his father and the child is explained in the following line where
Manu says a woman can not leave her husband.
He should be worshiped like a god no matter how he behaves with his wife:
Though destitute of virtue, or seeking pleasure
(elsewhere), or devoid of good qualities, (yet) a husband must be constantly
worshipped as a god by his faithful wife. (Buhler, G. 196)
This kind of heritage
make him feel that only his mother is wrong in leaving his father, not
his father. Even Kumar does not deny that in practice The Laws of Manu have
also caused the grave mistreatment of Hindu women as well. (Kumar, 213). In
global village no one can say that any influence can remain confined to certain
place or civilization for a long time. Today the influence of Manu Smirit can
not be limited to any one tradition or culture because it has made its way to
the world literature through variegated means and sources. Manu Smrti has been
translated not only by Indian scholars but also scholars from UK and Germany
like William Jones and G. Buhler. It is understandable that it has exercised
its influence on the minds of creative writers and critic and it is possible
that it has its marks on the writer who was at that time just trying to
establish roots in the new atmosphere of new culture and new place. The
thinking of the protagonist certainly gives the feeling of the Laws of Manu on
his psyche. Manu prescribes in verses from 147 to 149 of chapter 5 every
possible restriction on women by saying that they should not do any activity
independently and also they should not try to separate themselves from male
figure. The same practice is seen in the novel Why. The Laws of Manu
are deeply entrenched in Hindu society. Its far reaching influence has been
both beneficial and troublesome throughout History. (Rodrigues, Hillary).
After his mother leaves, Ruben keeps on
trying with every woman he meets just to feel the teaching of Manu that goes
like, Women do not care for beauty, nor is their attention on age; they give
themselves to the handsome as well as ugly just for the fact that he is a man. (women
in world history)
The above mentioned reason for his mother’s elopement
disturbs him and he develops antagonistic feelings for his mother and thinks
that all the women are the same and their main concern is physical relation. He
views every woman with that angle only. Ruben Motard leaves readers bewildered
with many unanswered questions. The
title of the novel itself leaves a question in the minds of readers. One
justification for writing this type of novel may be the fact that the novelist
was in the early stages of his writing and was still examining the focal point
of his career. It may also be true to say that the protagonist of Why
explores the possibilities of embracing peace in the flesh of women that he
does not find anywhere else. In doing
so, he certainly follows the theory of
Manu. Being the product of Indian soil the novelist carries the Indian
Mythological inheritance with him in the country that he has adopted as his
home. Why, full of love making and graphics, fails to depict love as
does Love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock, a dramatic monologue, without love.
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Anuradha Sharma, a recipient of several
honors, is a lecturer at Navjivan Arts
and Commerce College, Dahod in Gujarat.
She writes poetry in English and Hindi both. Her poems and research papers have
appeared in many journals, anthologies and news papers in India and abroad. At
present she is working on a Minor Research Project funded by UGC and has
been selected for Associateship by IIAS,
Shimla. She is editing a book on Stephen Gill and also translating his epical
poem The Flame into Hindi. .